The Art of Self Love

Love! What comes in your mind when you hear this word? Your parents, girlfriend / boyfriend, crush or someone else who is in your life at the moment. You are miserably failing here the one person you should love the most is yourself. We always surround ourselves with people from whom we expect something or the other. Everyone expects some kind of love and affection from their loved ones and that’s normal, but we fail to pamper and love ourselves before anyone else. Self love is nothing to do with looks or some milestone we have, keep in mind you are working for your goals and you have came a long way in the process of achieving those goals. Pat yourself! For all the nice things which you have done for others, now the time has come to understand your own importance.

Don’t expect someone to love you until you do not love yourself. We do various things to impress people to make people happy to make them feel special so why can’t we do that to our self. Compliment yourself, pamper yourself, make yourself feel special in the process just don’t cross the line and get claimed as narcissist. We always sacrifice some precious moments of our life for someone else just so that they don’t feel bad. But what about yourself the thoughts which come in your mind while you go to bed, the moments when you cry about things which you can’t fix, at that very moment there is no one  with you and you start feeling bad about yourself. Don’t shed your tears for others your tears are much of a higher value.  

When you are with group of friends you tend to talk bad about some third friend, don’t you think those friends of yours behind your back are talking bad about you? Are you that special? Stop making adjustments in yourself for all the things which are reveled to you by others. It is required to evaluate yourself rather than listening at others opinion about yourself.

Mantra: Take yourself on a date, buy that dress which you want, pamper yourself, make yourself feel special and don’t have a FOMO on anything in life.

The moment you start loving yourself you will be the happiest soul on this planet and there will be no looking back. #LOVEMYSELF